There's a version of empathy that's emotional — you put yourself in someone's position and feel what they might feel. That has its place. But in design work, especially inside large organisations, what's more useful is a colder, more deliberate kind: the ability to map how another person understands the situation, what they're optimising for, what they're afraid of, and what they need to be true in order to move forward.
I think of this as positional empathy. It's not about compassion — it's about accuracy. And it turns out to be one of the most practically useful skills in enterprise design work, because most of the hard problems in these environments aren't visual or technical. They're political and cognitive. People aren't aligned. People don't share the same mental model of the problem. People have incentives that aren't visible in the brief.
If you can map that landscape accurately — without losing your own perspective — you can find the path through it. Not by winning the argument, but by understanding the terrain well enough to stop arguing about the wrong things.